I told my wife her 17 year old sister is from hell, she won’t listen – the End
I was biting my lips on why I made such a mistake, spilling the bean at that ungodly hour as my wife slowly raised her head, and fixed this look on me that traumatized me for few seconds.
She slowly asked me what I just said.
I lost my words. I wanted to explain what I just said, but lost my words. I wasn’t ready to think about it. I wasn’t ready to think about the next step to take.
“Did you just say, Amaka is pregnant?” she repeated the question in a low tone that was filled with shock, disappointment and despair.
I just sat there in shame, facing my head to the ground.
She then stood, rushed to Amaka and started beating her. She was seriously pouring her anger on her.
But Amaka wasn’t taking it, she pushed her and my wife fell hard on the floor. She then, warned my wife never to touch her again, or she would see the stuff she was made off.
Just imagine what I caused. All because of my lack of control, Amake had the nerves to challenge her elder sister. She had the nerves to disrespect her, because she was eating the same food my wife was eating.
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And her rude behaviour triggered my anger.
I rebuked her immediately and asked her if she was crazy. I almost descended on her, but I wasn’t the type who hit women. So I restrained myself.
And she said, that my wife caused it, that she was asking her to stop, but she still continued beating her.
We were caught in a very bad condition, instead of her to be feeling bad, she still had the effrontery to stand bold as if she also had right over me.
My wife still remained on the floor, dumbfounded, sobbing in grief. The whole thing was playing like a film to her. She didn’t even know what to do.
The next thing she did, she went to the room and started packing her things.
I failed her, I failed my wife.
After my wife entered the room, I went to Amaka where she was standing boldly and told her to get her things, that she will be leaving my house that day.
And she said, never. That she won’t be going anywhere and not after putting her in a family way. That I should make up my mind in making her my second wife.
“Over my dead body. Even if you like, give birth to Jesus Christ, I will never have anything to do with you ever again. Since you were matured enough to induce me into sleeping with you, then I think you will be matured enough to take care of your present condition” I said to her and returned to my wife in the bedroom.
Before I could reach, she was already done, packing her few things.
I tried stopping her, but she already made up her mind to leave.
I tried all I could do to stop her, but she was determined to leave.
I thought for another way to stop her from leaving, then I left my self fall to the floor, kneeling and begging. And for the first time in my life as a full grown man, I saw myself crying for real, releasing real tears. It really touched and pained my heart on how I disrespected our marriage. I continued begging her.
She then turned, looking at me. Her eyes were already swollen, in deep red. And she said, she would have forgiven me, but the person involved was her sister and I already got her pregnant. That I should marry her and that, I shouldn’t allow her do anything that would harm her life. That I shouldn’t allow her terminate the pregnancy.
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She gave me a piece of advice and left. And my world finished. I failed to pull a control. I allowed a little girl destroy my marriage.
I was so ashamed of calling my family and informing them what was happening.
My wife spoke with her family not to disturb me, that what happened was her fault. That she should have listened to me in the first place and abolish the idea of having Amaka in our home.
All my efforts in having my wife back to my house proved abortive.
Amaka who saw everything happened, and how her sister lost her marriage didn’t feel any remorse at all and this made me even more angry with her. She doesn’t have a heart, she doesn’t even have a conscience. I hated her to the extent of her sight irritating me.
So I had to do what my wife said, by not allowing anything happen to Amaka. She was betrayed by her sister, but still had a heart to seek good for that her same sister.
Her heart was very unique, a charming gold. A beautiful soul that I lost out of lust.
Amaka was having it in her heart that, with her sister been gone, she would become the madam of the house, but she does not know that, she already created an everlasting hatred in my heart.
Though I allowed her stay in my house for the sake of the baby, but I never allowed her have anything to do with me again. I stopped eating in the house, I restricted her to some certain areas in the house. I forbade her from entering my room and my living room. And also my wife’s room. I kept dressing her room, hoping for the day she would return to me. I really miss her, terribly.
I limited Amaka only to the kitchen and the visitor’s room, where she had been staying. She couldn’t believe that, I would treat her in such manner. Her intention was to become my wife, but that position is only meant for her elder sister and she can never take her place.
And this girl started threatening me, that if I don’t get married to her, that she would terminate the pregnancy.
So I told her that, it’s her life, that she was free to do whatever she likes, that I don’t care. Then, she was already 5 months gone.
She could no longer bear the way I was treating her.
I knew her sister asked me not to allow anything happen to her, but Amaka wasn’t the type of person I would like to have a child with.
So I told her that, I wasn’t going to ask her to abort the child, but if she really want to do it, that she should go ahead, that it will even be better for both of us.
She just stood there, looking at me, perplexed. She thought that, she could really use pregnancy to tie my down. She then respected herself. The next week, she told me she was going home, that she can’t stay in my house anymore. I said better and gave her enough money for transport.
Throughout her pregnancy period, I made sure she never lacked anything. I kept buzzing her account, just to make sure that the bady was ok and didn’t lack any care.
Amaka later gave birth to a boy. Yea, I am happy that I have a child now, but I won’t be bringing him home yet, because doing that, would force Amaka to start living with me aswell, using the child as an excuse. When my child grows, I will go for him. But for now, I will be giving him my financial support and making sure that, he doesn’t lack anything.
It’s been months since my wife left me, I’m really missing her terribly and still praying for God to forgive me and also give her the heart to forgive and come back to her husband.
What I did with Amaka was a mistake I will continue regretting in my entire life.
I am still begging my wife to come back and I believe that, one day, she will have it in her heart to forgive me. I am hopeful.
This is the end of my story. Never be like me. People like Amaka are agents sent to destroy peaceful homes. Never give them chance. I’m still crying and regretting my actions. Learn from my mistake.
Thank you Ngozi Lovelyn for giving me this opportunity to share my story. Writing it helped eased my weeping heart, atleast a little.
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