Ngozi Lovelyn Life Stories
My Life After I Put This Inside My Husband’s Pillow – Part 16
My husband was becoming that perfect man I was wishing him to be. But this time, in a faster pace. The speed he was changing was becoming alarming.
He even sought for my permission before he could leave for work.
And that, if I didn’t approve him, he won’t leave.
Even before leaving the house, he swept the whole house and mopped it. He also did laundry, my clothes and including that of the kids. Just that morning oo. When I wanted to stop him, he refused, saying that I should stop distracting him.
I stood one side, looking at my husband, feeling hurt on what I reduced him to. I wanted my husband to change and become a better man, not having him turn into a house boy.
So I went inside, called the lady and explained what was happening.
She said, she didn’t see anything wrong in what I just explained, that that’s the way her things work. She advised that, I shouldn’t panic, that my husband won’t cheat on me again. That I should enjoy him, instead of being worried.
But I was worried, extremely worried. It wasn’t normal turning my husband into a house boy.
He went to his shop very late that day. He left around 1, simply because of what I did to him. He was trying to please his wife and also sought for my permission before he could leave.
But that wasn’t all. 2 hours after he left, he called, to inquire how I was doing.
So I told him that, I was fine. And he said Ok, that he was closing his shop, to come and be with me.
So I yelled ‘no’, that I was fine, that he should remain where he was. But he insisted. He closed his shop and started heading home, to be with me.
And that was when I made up my mind to reverse what I did. Because if things continue that way, it would definitely affect his business and the family will suffer.
So I called the lady and told her that, I wasn’t interested anymore.