Ngozi Lovelyn Life Stories
My Life After I Put This Inside My Husband’s Pillow – Part 9
My sister inlaw tried inquiring if I was somehow suspecting if he was seeing another woman.
But I’m not the type who is bothered about all those things. I don’t even go through his phones, because I know he is a man and I may stumble on some texts that may break my heart or hurt me terribly.
Before getting married, I already wrapped my mind that all men are polygamous in nature. And that it’s in their DNA to cheat.
So I allowed that idea to guide me to avoid getting hurt or giving myself unnecessary headaches and heart attack.
The only thing I was requesting from my husband, was to love me, respect me, care for me and value our union. Even if he is cheating on me, he shouldn’t let me know about it. He should keep it outside and don’t allow it affect our marriage. And another woman shouldn’t make him loose the respect he has for me.
I respect his privacy and doesn’t feel the urge to go through his phone. And even if my suspicions were proven right that he was actually seeing another woman, I will still do nothing about it. I’m not the crazy type, who fight other women to stay off her husband.
So my hope relied on the promise my sister inlaw made to me, that she would talk to her brother.
And I was praying earnestly that it would yield a positive result.
She promised to do it on Sunday, his less busy day.