Why Most Relationship Won’t Work No Matter What You Do by Chinagorom Ify
Most girls complain how guys break their hearts and walk away, simply because they deny them sex.
And most even surrendered their virginity in a bid to keep the man and still end up broken.
Some even brag about being a virgin and for that, their husbands won’t joke with them when they get married.
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The story of the ten virgins in the Bible reveals that, both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other Five were denied access to see the bridegroom, not because they were virgins nor because they lost their virginity.
NO! But because they were foolish. They were called foolish because, they had no extra oil.
And the extra oil here is simply referred to as, character.
Most girls today lack the extra oil to sustain any relationship.
While those who still haven’t deflowered keep bragging about their virginity.
Aside your virginity, what else do you have to offer to a man?
Can you support him emotionally?
Can you support him spiritually?
Can you support him physically?
And how about intellectually?
Are you the type he finds peace with?
Relationship is not all about how good you are on bed, or how creative your bedmatic skills are.
Relationship is way beyond sex. If talking about sex, a man can get it anywhere..
So, how about being that support he needs?
All most girls do is demand money for material things, making him spend unnecessarily. And with time, the guy will realise she has nothing upstairs to offer.
Have you ever sit him down, and help him discuss about his future?
Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in?
How many times has he come, being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?
And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the wedding night, but extra oil continues. So do you have that extra oil to sustain the marriage?
Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life. It’s always a pride to be one, especially when he realises his mistakes, and he discovers that it’s already late for him.
Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose.
Ify Chinagorom
