Signs Your Ex is Waiting For You and Secretly Wants You Back
Things don’t end when a couple splits up. In the end, things either fade away or they wind up getting back together even after swearing never to see each other again.
Here are some signs that your ex still has romantic feelings for you and is just waiting for you to take the next step.
1. He Left His Things at Your Place and Isn’t in a Hurry to Pick Them Up.
So if you still have things from your ex around the house, know that he didn’t just leave them there.
By leaving things as they are, he is giving himself the illusion that you two are still connected in some way, which offers him a “emotional feeling of security.”
You should take this as a sign that he still has feelings for you and is watching to see where you really stand and what you plan to do.
2. He Still Has Your Things at His Place and Isn’t Trying to Give Them Back.
The fact that he’s storing your belongings isn’t an accident, just like when he left his items at your house.
That he hasn’t remembered or cared to make arrangements to return them all isn’t the case.
Keeping your things is an even greater’security’ to him! This gives him a sense of belonging to you, and it ensures that he will see you at least once more in the future.
It’s a safe bet that he’s keeping your belongings because he wants you back, but he won’t confess it!
3. He Keeps on Texting or Calling You as Though You Were Still Together.
So many of you have told me about another classic behavior: a guy breaking up with you but acting as if you were still together.
This could entail regular communication via text and phone, as well as setting up meetings or dates with you.
4. He Replies Right Away.
To get a sense of someone’s level of interest in chatting to you, you might look at how quickly they respond to your text messages.
It’s a solid sign that your ex is thinking of you and missing you when you text him and he responds within the same minute.
5. He Keeps You Updated on What’s New in His Life.
A companion is someone with whom you may share all of life’s major moments. All of the successes and defeats, big and small.
Most people who end a relationship don’t consider the long-term ramifications of their decision.
As a result of this, they act in a way that invites further abandonment and rejection.
So, even if your ex is the dumper, he may want you back if he keeps telling you about everything that’s going on in his life.
Signs indicate that he still needs you and is likely awaiting your next effort to get him back.
6. He Isn’t Dating Anyone New.
7. He Texts or Calls Late at Night.
When we’re intoxicated, we’re more likely to pursue our desires than when we’re sober.
If your ex sends you a booty text or makes a booty call while intoxicated, take it as a sign that he is thinking about you right now.
At the very least, it’s a sign that some part of him is still hoping for your return.
8. He Tells You He Misses You.
In the past, you may have had your ex tell you that he misses you, but he wouldn’t have broken up with you had he known how much he loved you.
The problem with breakups is that they’re never simple.
In most cases, the person who dumps someone is just doing it as a last resort to signal that something in the relationship isn’t working out.
9. He Talks to Others About You.
He or she keeps talking about you to anyone who cares to listen. It shows he stl misses you.